The consciousness of progress and catching up confine us in a strange circle, which is a never-ending runway. I think that we are always “aligning with…”, the root cause is the psychological influence and distress of the “match”.
If there is always the idea of ”catching up” in the heart, then it is destined to fall forever in the secondary position of the chaser; if there is always the idea of ”racing” in the heart, then it is destined to always be a slave to the opponent-and the so-called The opponent is just an imaginary enemy.
I like clothing, and compare it with clothing: Any woman who knows how to decorate herself understands that if you catch up with fashion, you will fail. Unscrupulous and vulgar, only knowing the aesthetic taste that follows fashion; a woman who understands what charm is, only caring about her aesthetic taste; a charming woman, changing the aesthetic taste of everyone; an outstanding woman, leading the aesthetic taste of everyone . But how can we change the fun of leading everyone? First of all, don’t always think of “synchronizing with everyone and keeping up with everyone”.