Everyone, no matter what age, situation, or experience, will face many troubles and difficulties.
Many times, the reason we are troubled is not caused by external causes. It is our state of mind and state that determines and influences our emotions.
In fact, there is no universal recipe for a happy life in this world, but if you can choose the following three points, you will be free and easy and calm.
The first choice, let go.
Everyone’s first half of life is constantly adding, but in the latter half of life, we must learn to constantly do subtraction.
Maybe when we were young, we had a heavy burden and we were under a lot of pressure. For this reason, we suffered a lot of grievances, suffered a lot of losses, and walked through many detours. But after a long process, we have gained knowledge and experience. Increased wisdom. At this point, we must learn to reach a settlement with everything that we could not afford.
Learn to let go of some people, after all, getting to know one is a fate, and getting along is also a doom. Since there is no chance to reunite, it is better to learn to wave goodbye instead of entanglement. Letting go of others is also treating yourself.
Learn to let go of some things. After all, whether it is wrong or over, it is left in the past that can’t go back; whether it’s important or not, it has become an unchangeable fact. In this case, it is better to learn to clear the past and lightly move forward.
Learn to let go of a section of road, there is nowhere to go, maybe there are other options, do not have to stick to a dead corner in the heart of a corner. I don’t have to stay in the same place all the time, insisting that I can’t get along with myself. Maybe turning a corner and going around, it will suddenly become more and more cheerful.
When you learn how to put it down, you learn how to start over. When you learn to relieve yourself, you learn how to make yourself easier and simpler.
The second choice, forget.
In a person’s life, there will be countless experiences, some become beautiful memories in your heart, and some become scars that cannot be healed.
If we keep everyone, everything, every beginning and the end in mind, it is very likely that we will fall into collapse and despair because we are overwhelmed.
So learn to forget the harm others have to you. Whether it is intentional or unintentional, the martyrdom of others will pass, and you don’t have to worry about it, you don’t have to worry about it.
Learn to forget the kindness you have given others. When you lose this sense of giving, don’t overdo it, your heart will be much more balanced.
Learn to forget those unpleasant pasts. Those insignificant people and things, insignificant accidents, in the heart for too long, easy to hide, dirt, ash, it is better to leave them behind. Just thinking about it will only make you physically and mentally affected.
In this life, there are actually many things worth remembering. Maybe sometimes we can’t decide what kind of experience we will encounter, but it is our right and freedom to not invite unworthy people and things into our lives for too long.
The third option: cherish.
Sometimes when we are still trying to recover irreparable and hard-won, we lose a lot of what we originally had. Many people will fall into endless remorse and be unable to extricate themselves. In fact, when we learn to cherish, we learn how to create happiness.
Learn to cherish the present. Don’t be lazy, slack and procrastinating when working hard. Only when it is solid and good at this moment, a beautiful future will come as expected.
Learn to cherish the people in front of you. Give more understanding, care and care to the people around you. Don’t leave the worst temper to the person who loves you the most, and don’t wait until you lose them to remember to save and make up.
Learn to cherish life. You never know which one will come tomorrow and tomorrow, and every day you live should be grateful.
If one learns to cherish everything that he already has, he will reduce a lot of greed and reduce many regrets. Naturally, he will not live so tired.
Many of the unhappiness we face is probably due to: We often linger between persistence and abandonment, and we are confused and confused, so we are always confused and confused; we always remember what should not be remembered, and forget the memorabilia. It will be entangled and remorseful; we often cherish it when we have it, and regret it when we lose it, so we will have regrets and sighs.
In fact, the road to life is full of bumps and thorns. When faced with many choices, you must learn to choose, judge, and measure. No one can tell you the shortcuts once and for all, and no one can give you the experience of copying the whole copy, and no one can help you make a foolproof choice.
In short, don’t be reluctant when you let go; don’t be more aggressive when you forget it; don’t be willful when you cherish it.
Live a little more free, calm and simple, life will become more beautiful, clear and transparent.